"Oh, no - more rain and flooding?" Well, there is rain forecast for this weekend, but this is a metaphor. And, yes, this is more HOA related stuff, so if you want to skip over this post, I get it. I would be happy to skip over this stuff, too.
This morning, I am meeting with the vice-president and Landscaping Committee chairman, along with the manager for our account from the landscaping company. The discussion is regarding replacing trees and other plants in the community that have died or were torn out by the storm last month. Just trying to do my part to help.
Here's the rub: some homeowners wanted the park fixed right away; another group didn't want to spend anything on repairs. Deferring to the CC&Rs, we are required to get repairs done to any common property that is damaged.
People are just discovering that their HOA dues will be going up $20 starting in January. We held 3 months of budget meetings, where homeowner input was requested. Generally, around 10 to 15% of the homeowners participated. So, for some, this dues increase was a surprise. It shouldn't have been, but, you can't make people participate.
So, of course, the "angry mob" has unleashed on Facebook: accusations that the board is "recklessly spending money," even though every expenditure is voted on during our public board meetings. To make matters worse, one board member was over the top with screaming and accusing at the board meeting last week. Apparently, she doesn't remember that she voted in favor of all those expenditures except one... and that was for repairs to our common areas that were damaged... and that is clearly covered in the CC&Rs that we are required to effect the repairs... not to mention that she wasn't there for the emergency board meeting.
Accusations (completely unfounded) that "board members are buddied up with vendors like the landscape company and getting kick-backs"... wow, that is pretty darn libelous. People saying that the board is using the social budget to throw parties for themselves and paying food trucks to come into the community - total BS.
But, people seem to think they can get on Facebook and say anything with impunity.
One board member responded to the accusations, because many were directed at her. I try to avoid "trial by Facebook"... it is like arguing politics on Facebook: nobody's mind gets changed. Everybody gets mad. Nothing gets settled.
So... I am setting up a "Meet the president" gathering for Saturday, November 22nd; 9:00 am to 10:00 am. No other board members, no one from the management company - ask me any question you want about the HOA dealings, and you will get the facts. You may not like the facts, but you will have them, with no innuendo, no screaming, no unfounded accusations. Here's the letter that will go on the Homeowners' Portal...
Meet your HOA board president.
Saturday, November 22nd, 2025, 9:00am to 10:00 am. Dobbins Village park, at the ramada.
There has been too much mis-information being put out on Facebook. I have said the HOA board doesn’t conduct business on Facebook, but this is apparently where people come to spread half-truths or make assumptions. Come to the park in our community, at the ramada, and I will answer ANY of your questions.
Want to know the real facts about the budget, including the social budget that people seem to be losing their minds over? Ask me: face to face. I will explain WHY, and why every board member voted for it. Want to know about the bids that your board has to wade through and vote on? Saturday morning @ 9:00, and you will get the truth.
This will be just me - I have not consulted with the other board members or City Property Management in scheduling this get-together. This is not going to be a “shout down” - I will be civil and respectful, and I expect the same from anyone in attendance. I am giving my time freely - if you come looking for an argument, this is not the forum. We’re all entitled to our opinion, but this get-together is about FACTS. If you ask my opinion about something, I will give it; give yours if you want, but this isn’t going to be a debate. If I don’t know the answer to any particular question, I will find out. I don’t proclaim to have all the answers, but I can guarantee you that I have been up to my eyeballs in things relating to the HOA. You may or may not like the answers, but you will get direct answers to your questions.
It is easy to get on Facebook and complain. Come to this get-together on Saturday, November 22nd from 9:00 am to 10:00 am. Am I brave or stupid? Come judge for yourself. One thing for certain - you will get the facts. Not my version of the facts, not a board decision, not anything from City Property Management.
But, the half-truths, innuendos, and some outright lies on Facebook are not good for this community; and I am serving on this board because I CARE about this community. Want to ask me about speed bumps? Food trucks? CC&Rs? Architectural requests? Want to oust me from the board? I’ll explain the the procedure. I don’t do this job for the ego-boost, and it certainly isn’t for the money (since the board and committee members are all volunteers).
I would like this to be in a very public setting that doesn’t cost us anything. Let’s put our park to good use. People complain about the board meetings being on a Thursday evening - let’s do this on Saturday morning. In case anyone missed it: Saturday, November 22nd, 9:00 am to 10:00 am. Don’t send in questions ahead of time - you will know I have no “prepared statements.”
Don’t know how to get on the Homeowners Portal? Bring your laptop or iPad - my wife has volunteered to help you. This community is our home. I can’t guarantee that everyone will be happy here, but there doesn’t need to be the unpleasantness like you see on social media - we are better than that. Well, most of us. But, I’ll answer questions, even for the cranky people. Let’s be fair and not try to monopolize the time.
This is your chance to show that you are bigger than the bickering on social media. Show up.
We'll see if anyone shows up.