Yes, there is a definition of sorts for that title: "affectionate felines that actively seek out warmth, comfort, and security, by sitting on their owners' laps. Top affectionate breeds include Ragdolls, Maine Coons, Persians, and Siamese. Encouraging this behavior involves creating a warm, calm environment with treats and soft blankets." We haven't seen lap-sitting since Rufus - that big boy loved being on his Momma's lap.
Murphy is not a lap cat. He will sit beside us... not on us. Stella was certainly not trusting of humans when we first brought her home. About 10 weeks now. She seems to love being around us, loves to be petted, is willing to be held, but doesn't initiate it herself. Last night at bedtime, she got up on the bed on her own; that's a big deal.
This morning...
That is Joan's lap that Stella is laying on. Without being held in place. Joan put her there, but it was Stella's choice to stay. This is a start.
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And for afternoon nap time...
Not too close, but on the same couch. Murphy and Stella are doing good together. Not 24/7 - I would say it's around a half hour of "wrestling" split up over several times during the day. Like that photo above shows, they can be around each other peacefully. Treats together a couple times a day.
And right now, Murphy is laying right next to Joan while she is reading. Stella is on the top section of the taller cat tower. It's pretty quiet here right now.
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